Lonely Christian Soldiers! Psalm 88:8-18

Text: “Thou has put away mine acquaintance far from me; Thou hast made me an abomination unto them: I am shut up, and I cannot come forth.”                                                                                                               Psalm 88:8.

          “Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, and will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be My sons and daughters, saith the Lord.”                                                                                          2 Corinthians 6:17-18.

 Good morning, often lonely, separated Christian! Once in your life and in mine, we had the crowds of the world as close friends and confidants; always an inner circle of worldly friends and acquaintances who would support us and sympathise with us no matter what  came about. 

Having one father, Satan himself, being amalgamated with others who were on their way to Hell seemed not such a bad experience of life – until the Living Lord God called us to become a part of His Holy Family – the church – and we were commanded to come apart from all our closest worldly friends and acquaintances, in order to be received as sons and daughters of the Living Lord God.  (John 8:44)

“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness?   And what communion hath light with darkness? And what concord hath Christ with Belial?  Or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel...Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, and will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be My sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.” (2 Corinthians 6:14-18)

There is, therefore, no doubt that the dedicated Christian life can be quite a lonely experience, and all who seek to live it can agree that the Psalmist’s experience is a very real one.

Verse 8: “Thou has put away mine acquaintance far from me. There are times when an unspeakable sadness steals upon me, an immense loneliness takes possession of my soul, a longing perchance for some vanished hand and voice to comfort me as of old, a desolation without form and void, that wraps me in its folds and darkens my inmost being.  It was not thus in the first days of my illness…My God, my God, to whom can I turn for comfort but unto Thee, Thou Who didst drink the bitter cup of human loneliness to the dregs that Thou mightest make Thyself a brother to the lonely, a merciful and faithful High Priest to the desolate soul; Thou Who alone canst pass within, the doors being shut to all human aid, into that secret place of thunder, where the tempest-tossed soul suffers and struggles alone; Thou Who alone canst command the winds and tempests, and say unto the sea, ‘Be still!’ and unto the wind ‘Blow not!’ and there shall be a great calm.” (From ‘Christ, the Consoler, A Book of Comfort for the Sick’ (Anon)

Spiritual depression is something that pulls the very soul down into a pit that can never be escaped – but for the help of a Sovereign Lord God of all grace and mercy.  Praise His Name!

Verse 8. “Thou hast made me an abomination unto them: I am shut up, and I cannot come forth.”  The speed at which old worldly friends and confidants turn on one when one is called into Christ’s Salvation, is a constant source of amazement to me. It is as though such ‘friends’ know they are on their way to Hell, but it doesn’t seem as bad to them just as long as one of their friends does not jump off the damnation train they are on!  New converts to Christ Jesus know this as a fact of their experience of being graciously saved. 

Verse 8. “Thou hast made me an abomination unto them. The mass of men who gather around a man and flatter him are like tame leopards; when they lick his hand, it is well for him to remember that with equal gusto they would drink his blood.”  (C.H. Spurgeon, Treasury of David, page 369)

It is a well-known statistic that young, newly professing Christians can be lost back into the world so quickly by experiencing the loneliness I have just identified in Psalm 88.  It does not take much coaxing, for some new believers, to be wooed back into the drinking dens they once haunted, or into old worldly habits which used to be their ‘normal’ mode of life.  It takes strong determination, much prayer, and drawing close to the Lord God to stop many from returning like the dog to its vomit, or the pig to its wallowing in the mire.  Fact. If the Lord has called them, nothing will deter them. But false professors are easily wooed back into the world.

“For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them. But it is happened unto them according to the true proverb, The dog is turned to his own vomit again; and the sow that was washed to her wallowing in the mire.” (2 Peter 2:20-22)

At times of such testing, it can seem as if the Lord has hidden His face from the believer.  And the loss of God’s perceived countenance is a grievous depth of loneliness.

Verse 14. “Lord, why castest Thou off my soul? Why hidest Thou Thy face from me? He cannot act towards us in other than a right and gracious manner, therefore, for every stroke of His rod there is a sufficient reason in the judgement of His loving heart; let us try to learn that reason and profit by it.” (C.H. Spurgeon, Treasury of David, page 369)

A father only chastens his own much-loved children. When we are chastened of the Lord God, it is a proof-positive that we are indeed, His children, and shall benefit from the chastening.

“And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:28)

“And she (Mary) shall bring forth a son, and thou (Joseph) shall call His Name Jesus: for He shall save His people from their sins.” (Matthew 1:21)

Because of such deep loneliness endured by Bible-believing Christians, we must always seek to have a group of other sound Christians with whom to fellowship, pray with and for, in order to remain separate from the world and refuse to be conformed to its ways.

“And be ye not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect will of God.”  (Romans 12:2)

“Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For it they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up…It one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord in not quickly broken.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12)

Thought: We shall never find Christian support in the Devil’s halls of worldly sin!

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